A Day Late for Autism

“A Day Late for Autism” by Dr. Darleen Claire Wodzenski of Orchard Human Services, Inc. serving the Metro Atlanta area with locations in Marietta, College Park, and Alpharetta. Join Orchard in identifying and supporting healthy long term behaviors and capabilities of children with Autism and other Neuro-Atypical Presentations … to ensure longer term health and wellbeing into adulthood.

Orchard Human Services is committed to finding answers and solutions for the growing number of children being diagnosed with an Autism Spectrum Disorder or some other variation of neurodevelopment. The statistics are alarming, while the rhetoric abounds concerning early identification and intervention of children with Autism Spectrum and other neuro-developmental disorders. Sadly, even early identification may fail to properly address the serious issues faced by children with challenging disorders. Focused and long range goals must be addressed in early intervention planning to prepare these children for a lifetime of success.

A short term focus on goals and intervention strategies often leaves children falling short on critical life skills and self-management that can lead to lack of productivity and life determination … and in some cases even incarceration, homelessness, and institutionalization. Being Autistic is not an excuse for engaging in ongoing dangerous or inappropriate behavior; intervention strategies can help correct problems.




Children who are neuroatypical often need a map to help them navigate the challenges of childhood and adolescence. They need to learn coping skills to adjust for their sensitivities, and find ways to leverage their strengths. A long range perspective of the individual child’s developmental pathway provides the greatest likelihood of children growing up to become healthy, well adjusted, and effective members of society.

Join us in taking a look at effective ways to support the healthy transition of children with Autism Spectrum Disorder, Asperger’s, and other Neurodevelopmental Atypical presentations from childhood to adulthood. Services include psychotherapy, counseling, therapy, intervention, and child developmental consultation. Whether you work with a psychotherapist, counselor, therapist, interventionist, or child development consultant, you and your child will gain valuable insight into what behaviors are likely to support forward growth and learning, and which behaviors must be modified or eliminated in order to help your child become an effective and successful member of society.

We offer services in the Greater Metropolitan Atlanta area of Georgia with offices in Atlanta, the Cumberland area near Galleria Mall, Marietta, College Park, Alpharetta, and Paulding County near Hiram and Douglasville. If you are outside the Metro Atlanta area, consultative, intervention, and advocacy services are available by phone and video internet sessions.

Want to read more about the challenges facing many neuroatypical children today? Read on …

ABA [Applied Behavior Analysis] therapy, widely recognized as an effective behavioral intervention strategy to help children who are neuro-atypical, is only as good as the goals and desired outcomes that are written into the intervention plan. Children with social, emotional, behavioral, and mental health challenges need swift and dramatic intervention support to help them get on track for a successful transition from the school environment to the real world.

Just this week, I watched two precious children with serious behavioral challenges go untreated. The schools focused on whether these children were potty trained. I say diapers and pull-ups are cheap. What is most valuable – and the hardest to acquire – is the safe, lawful, and socially appropriate behavior of neuro-atypical children who also have challenges with violent outbursts, running away, and exposing themselves in public.

While the picture to the left is an eye-catcher that represents someone caught with their “pants down” … it is the opposite of what happens with some children who are neuro-atypical. Some of these children lack any awareness of social rules and boundaries. A child who was focused on changing their clothes for a field trip may undress and change in the middle of a classroom or parking lot. Some children drop their drawers as they are walking toward the bathroom for a potty break. Other children openly masturbate in public, unaware of the deep taboos that society places on such behavior.

Parents often stare at me with wide eyes, sometimes tearing up, as I point out that their child will never be put in jail for wetting their pants in public. When that child becomes a legal adult at age eighteen, however, the behaviors that were overlooked during early childhood can lend them in jail, in an institution, or living on the street.


Children with neurodevelopmental disorders that involve violent behavior, such as hitting, kicking, head-butting, biting, body-slamming, spitting, and scratching, must receive immediate, focused, and precise intervention. The fervor behind the intervention targeting safe, peaceful, and socially appropriate behavior of the child must be at least 10% more intense than the child’s underlying violent behavior. The idea is that the intervention should dissuade the child from choosing to engage in the dangerous behaviors, favoring more effective and socially appropriate alternatives to violence.

The same is true for children who undress in public, masturbate, or sexually self-stimulate. Children who failed to develop healthy social capacities may be unaware of the social pressures to remain clothed when in public or to refrain from touching one’s own [or another person’s] private parts. Parents and teachers who try to ignore auto-stimulation and disrobing in public are failing to recognize the severity of that same behavior ten or twenty years into the future.

Behavior management and impulse control is best taught when children are very young. The younger the child, the more neuroplastic the brain. That means a child’s brain has a greater capacity to learn to do new things. Older children have a dramatically diminished capacity to shift to accommodate new demands for social awareness and appropriate behavior. This is because of a phenomenon called synaptic pruning, when the young brain begins to break down the abundant excess of brain cells that are present in the infant brain.

The implications for parents, teachers, mental health professionals, and behavioral interventionists is clear: Intervention plans must address the long term goals and interventions that are likely to produce the most favorable outcomes for the child. Children must never be allowed to engage in rough or forceful behaviors; while a child who is three or four might be easy to handle, the same thrashing about may be dangerous when the child is thirteen or fourteen.

In our programs, we carefully analyze the way children with all types of disability behave, and analyze the long term implications of that behavior. If they are very loud, we recognize that failure to modulate their vocal volume could result in losing classroom privileges. Children may forcefully grab a caretaker’s finger or hand to drag them across the room or to point to a desired toy or food. While this behavior may seem harmless in a toddler or preschooler, the same behavior may result in serious harm when the child grows in size and strength. Some children who forcefully grab onto others to get their attention may break a finger or rupture a tendon or ligament in the hand of the caretaker.

Join Orchard Human Services in demanding better long range planning and services for those children with neuro-developmental or other disorders that also experience challenges of socialization, behavior, and maintaining appropriate boundaries around private parts. Better interventions lead to better behaviors and more capable social, emotional, and self-regulatory capacities of children who are neuro-atypical.

Some symptoms of a potential neurodevelopmental disorder*

*[may include Autism Spectrum Disorder, Asperger’s, Neuro-atypical status]:

  • Socially awkward
  • Painfully shy [See book Raising Social Children by Dr. Darleen Claire]
  • Challenges coping in school [See book Dead Children Can’t Read by Dr. Darleen Claire]
  • Poor or maladaptive attachment development
  • Social and/or emotional developmental disorder
  • Difficulty making or keeping friends
  • Challenged to go with the flow in school and other complex social settings
  • Sensitive to sensory input [sound, movement, lights, vibration, taste, smell]
  • Overloaded in busy places like a mall or school cafeteria
  • Difficulty looking in another person’s face; inability to make eye-to-eye contact
  • Fixated or repetitive behaviors that are sometimes like rituals
  • Compulsive thoughts or beliefs
  • Echolalia – repeating sentence or word fragments without meaning
  • Delayed motor development
  • Delayed speech and communication development
  • Hyperlexia – obsession with letters and numbers
  • Resistant to change; becomes unstable when making a transition to new setting or activity
  • Sleep disturbance
  • Emotional meltdowns
  • Holding hands over face or ears to block out lights, visual activity, sounds, vibration
  • Sensitivity to texture, flavor, smell of food; preference for narrow repetitive food or drink selections
  • Unaware of emotions of self or others
  • Difficulty self-regulating; inability to self-calm, exercise impulse control, self-soothe
  • Cognitive or intellectual challenges; may also have pockets of high ability and giftedness
  • Advanced writing, math, or artistic skills, far beyond the child’s chronological age
  • Defiant when asked to perform a task that aggravates any of the aforementioned tendencies

Types of services that are available for neuro-atypical clients:

  • Epigenetic evaluation
  • Nutritional approach – may address “Keto” or Ketogenic, Gluten-Free, Mast-Cell Activation Disorder/Syndrome
  • Brain-Based Strategies
  • Social and Emotional Intervention [See book Raising Social Children by Dr. Darleen Claire]
  • Attachment Development Intervention
  • Developmental Profiling and Matched Intervention
  • Neurofeedback
  • Biofeedback
  • Special Education planning and consultation [See book Dead Children Can’t Read by Dr. Darleen Claire]
  • Educational Intervention, Planning, and Support
  • Special Ed, IEP [Individual Education Plan], Section 504 advocacy, support, consultation


Dr. Darleen Claire Wodzenski is available for consultation private or group intervention services, and public speaking engagements to help parents, educators, and other professionals understand the critical goals for early intervention for children with severe behavioral challenges.

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